Monday Jun 28, 2021

Obedient Love 30: Submissive Pride

As Pride month comes to a close, Ms. V. encourages you to follow the example of history and feel bold and proud in being who you are.

Submissive Attraction Flag

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Submissive Attraction (Alternative flag by me)

Submissive attraction is a form of attraction in which one feels the desire to be taken care and protected of by a certain person(usually a dominant or someone that feels dominant attraction). This may include a strong desire to feel needed by the person as well, and may also include a desire to please the person emotionally. (May also include a desire to be the submissive/not be dominant in the relationship if one is formed)

Can be accompanied with any orientation such as bi-, poly-, pan-, omni-, hetero-, etc… While not inherently sexual/romantic/sensual/etc, the person experiencing sumbissive attraction MAY or may not desire any form of relationship(romantic/sexual/QP/etc) with the other person(usually dominant)

While this isn’t specified to the kink community and isn’t inherently tied in with it, Kink members of course can be LGBTQ+ or be any identity within the MOGAI+ or whatever community, as being in the kink community doesn’t exclude you from this. So, if you’re a submissive person and you feel this form of attraction as well, awesome!

Color meanings:

Dark red/whatever color that is: Grey-submissive/demi-submissive, asubmissivespec

Red: regular intensity submissive attraction

Bright red: intense submissive attraction

reddish/brown?: Mix of brown and red, showing unity between submissive and dominant.

The brown colors represent the opposite dominant attraction and how they are in a sense dependent on each-other

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Comments (5)

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I really appreciated this one. In thinking about the question of a submissive male role model, I wanted to put out there that Ted Lasso, while a fictional character on a TV show that really embodies the submissive ideal. It is inspiring to see him go about life true to himself, completely unconcerned about ego, living his core values. The show treads lightly on his sexual submissiveness, but it’s there.

Monday May 29, 2023

As long as submission is seen by the general population as weakness it will be difficult to come out. I have come out to a couple of friends who have been supportive and understanding. I have decided to state in my profiles on even vanilla dating sites that I am a submissive and I have had some success at meeting women who are dominant and I am currently serving a wonderful woman who understood what I was communicating.

Monday Oct 31, 2022

This was such a good piece. I am going to copy down the affirmation to read and remind me regularly. It made me think of who I can tell. Ive started with my closest sibling. Andnit went so well. It is so very hard. But its got me going...and I dont want to pass this off. Last, I dont have a son but do a grandson. And your question about what my reaction would be was a freeing thing for me. For I know how supportive of him I would be. Great file! Thank you, Ma’am!

Tuesday Jun 07, 2022

Your words are so true to me!

Sunday Jan 30, 2022

Omgoddess, you again touched on another topic. i am in a position to be an example and i do. Nothing is hidden. i tell anyone that i do exactly what Ms V says and that i submit to all Women.

Monday Oct 04, 2021